After a somewhat rocky day yesterday, I wondered what might be in store for today. Kate often takes a while to fully wake. Sometimes it just takes longer than others. Yesterday was one of those. Today she surprised me when she was ready for her muffin at Panera before I knew that she was up. In terms of my own preferences, she was up at an ideal time. It meant no rushing to get to Panera and then for her to have lunch before the sitter arrives at noon. I can’t stress enough how much better she and I feel when she can take her time getting ready.
It has been a relaxing morning for the two of us. I have taken care of some email communications with Kate’s brother, Ken, met with someone who has given me a quote on a new water heater, arranged a phone call appointment for tomorrow, updated my file on the sitters, and the other things that my friend, Tom Robinson, refers to as his “morninglies.”
Kate has almost finished her sandwich, something she doesn’t always do. I don’t think I have ever commented on the way she eats sandwiches. Most of the time, she doesn’t pick up her sandwich and take a bite. She takes on the top slice of the bread and picks out the various items between the slices. I see that today she didn’t eat any of the slices of tomatoes or the lettuce. She did eat the slice of cheese and the turkey. She also finished the two slices of bread but left all the crust. She doesn’t like anything “crusty.” Lately she has been taking most of the breading off her fried shrimp and the fried chicken she gets at one of the restaurants we visit regularly. She does not eat the bacon if it comes on a sandwich. I have learned to order most sandwiches without bacon or lettuce. We’re always adapting to change.
