I have often commented on the importance of our social contacts with servers and other customers at the restaurants we frequent. In particular we have made it a point to learn a little about those who serve us, especially those who are our regulars. This is done without any expectation that they should do anything more than provide the service. They have done that well. Thus, it is a pleasant surprise when they respond to us in any special way as two of our servers have done this week and both involve something as simple as a Christmas card with an accompanying note.
The first came in the mail yesterday. It was from our server at a restaurant in Asheville. She has served us the past four times we have visited there. On Sunday, she had asked for our address, but I didn’t think anything about it until her card arrived. I was both surprised and touched by her thoughtfulness. Here is what she said.
Mr. Richard and Mrs. Kate,
You will never know how the 2 of you have touched my life. Your example of love & devotion to each other is one of the greatest things I’ve had the pleasure of experiencing.
Thank you for blessing me with this wonderful gift! You will be in my thoughts & prayers.
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!
Melissa
Today at Panera, one of the young men working there came to our table and gave us a card with another kind note.
As the holiday season is upon us, I think of all the benefits of being where I am. I quickly think of my relationships with great people like you.
I find myself reflecting on the past year and those who have helped to shape my day-to-day life. It’s been quite a year for us all. I hope that 2018 will be just as memorable for you, your friends, and your loved ones.
The end of the year brings no greater joy than to express to you season’s greetings and good wishes.
May your holidays and New Year be filled with joy.
Your friendly neighborhood barista,
Dave
Both of the remembrances meant a lot to Kate and me even more so because we would never have expected them. Perhaps that is a good lesson for all of us. I wonder who we can surprise with a word of kindness in the coming year.
