Yesterday, Kate woke up and wanted to go home. We went to lunch. She forgot about home and didn’t mention it again. On a number of other occasions, I have found that going out for a meal is an effective diversion technique.
We had a sitter during the afternoon. When I got home, Kate was resting. I spoke to her, and she talked with me as though I were entering a dream with her. She thought someone had had a baby and asked me about him. At some points, I thought she was talking about having had a baby herself. Other times, it seemed like it might have been a son or daughter though she never said specifically. She was excited, and said, “We have a baby.” She asked “his” name, and I gave her the name of her father. She was thrilled. Not long after that, she asked “her” name. I gave her the name of her mother. She was equally excited. She continued talking about the baby after we were seated at the restaurant. She wanted to know when she would be able to hold it. She also wanted to know where the baby was. I found this to be a challenging conversation. Once I had started to go along with her, I found myself having to get more creative in answering her questions. I decided it might be good to redirect her attention and suggested that we go to dinner. She wanted to rest a little longer and asked if the doctor said it was all right. I told her he said it was fine, and we left for our Friday night pizza.
Her enthusiasm continued in the car and at the restaurant. It lasted so long that I thought the conversation might continue even after we got home. At one point, she asked if the children had called. I told her they hadn’t and explained they had been busy. She couldn’t believe they hadn’t even called and said, “But it’s our baby.” Fortunately, when the pizza arrived, her attention drifted to eating. I didn’t hear a word about the baby after that.