For a while now I have noticed that when Kate is looking for her iPad, she doesn’t say “iPad.” She says something like, “Where is my?” and then makes a motion with her hand. I hadn’t thought much about it. I felt she was just momentarily slipping on the word. On several occasions recently, she has asked, “Is there something I could read?” That seemed strange to me because she never reads. On these occasions, I have asked if she would like her iPad. She quickly says she does. This happened yesterday. For the first time, it dawned on me that she is having the same experience remembering the “name” iPad for her tablet in the same way that she is forgetting the names of people. As for me, she still retains an attachment to the iPad, but she doesn’t know what to call it.
This is just one more example how many things are dropping out of her memory. She is beginning to forget the locations of her toothbrushes. They have been kept in three different bathrooms because she uses all three. Sometimes she accumulates more of them in one bathroom than another, but I come behind and try to see that she always has some in each bathroom as well as toothpaste, of course. Yesterday she asked, “Where can I brush my teeth?” I took her to our bathroom.
She is becoming less assured of where to go when we come in the house at night. On several occasions, she has said, “I’ll follow you.” Last night, I stopped in the kitchen to get something to drink. Instead of going to our bedroom, she lingered around until I was going. I am sure that was because she didn’t know where to go. Each of these things goes along with other things like forgetting where and how to get ice.
I think I mentioned yesterday that she is having more trouble with her iPad. She usually asks me to help her when she can’t do whatever she wants, but sometimes I can see her working hard to solve the problem herself. I suspect part of that is not wanting to bother me, but I think it is also not wanting to acknowledge encountering the same problems over and over. Sometimes she just closes the iPad and has a forlorn look on her face. I know then to help her. Once the problem is solved, she goes right back to work.
