More Signs of Dependence

Kate and I returned from lunch about thirty minutes ago. I pulled into the garage. As I got out, I noticed that she was still seated and had her seat belt on. I looked at her. She pointed her finger at the passenger door and had a look that told me she was asking if she should get out. I nodded yes. As she got out, I said, “I guess I wasn’t too clear.” She gave me a look that said, “What else is new?” I don’t recall any other time that she has waited for me to tell her she could get out of the car.

Once inside, I said, “I’ll bet you’re eager to get your teeth brushed.” That’s usually the first thing she does when we return from eating. She nodded her agreement. Then she asked, “Middle?” I knew that she was asking whether to use our bathroom or the one off the middle bedroom. I told her she could choose any one she wanted. She looked uncertain, and I said, “How about our bedroom?” Off she went.

We are now in our family where we are listening to Rachmaninov’s Piano Concerto No. 3. Kate had been working jigsaw puzzles on her iPad but is now resting on the sofa across from me. It’s a beautiful day in Knoxville. The sun is shining brightly though it is a bit chilly. We’re sharing a very peaceful moment. I plan to let her rest as long as she cares to do. Then we will probably make our way to Barnes & Noble for the balance of the day. After that, it will be time for dinner.