Sad Moment, – Sundowners?

About an hour ago, Kate came in from outside where she had been pulling leaves since we got home from dinner. I met her in the laundry room, and she said, “What now?” I told her it was time to take a shower and get into her night clothes for bed. She accepted that and went to shower.

After quite a while, I went back to her room to make sure she remembered to put on her night clothes. When I got there, she was about to get dressed to go out. I told her I was just coming back to remind her to put on her night clothes. She thanked me for that and said she was about to put on her regular clothes. I left the room.

In a little while she came into the kitchen fully dressed with her iPad in her hand along with a book of crossword puzzles. She was ready to go out to Panera or Barnes & Noble. I reminded her she needed to put on her night clothes. She went back to her room.

I had sat down in my chair in our bedroom when she walked in fully dressed. Once again, I told her it was time for her night clothes.

She went back to her room. When she returned, she was carrying a night gown but still dressed. She said, “I can just put this on over . . .” (did not finish). I told her she should take off the clothes she was wearing and just wear the night gown, that she would get hot wearing both.

She left again. She came back without the nightgown but had put on a different top. I stood up, walked over to her and put my arms around her and told her how much I loved her. She hugged me tightly and started to cry. She quickly stopped herself. Then I said, “Wouldn’t you like me to get you a night gown?” She nodded. I went back to her room and got a night gown and brought it to her. When I gave her the gown, I said, “We take care of each other, don’t we?” She agreed. Then I took the clothes she had been wearing and hung them up in her closet.’

I am back in the bedroom now. She is working on her iPad. When I walked in, I said, “The way you are lying there you look like the subject for an artist to paint.” Then I said, “We have a good time, don’t we?” She agreed. I said, “We’ve had a good time; we are still having a good time; and we are going to have more good times.”