In my first post of the year, I said we were off to a good start. That was because we had just gotten a replacement for our previous Monday through Friday caregiver who left us for health issues of her own. Three months have passed since our new caregiver has been with us. She has made our lives much better; however, Kate has also gotten along very well during the first three months of the year. My previous posts have been filled with the “Happy Moments” we have shared this year. During the past week, we have had more of those.
One of those occurred last Wednesday. As I was returning home from lunch, I caught the tail end of an unusually Happy Moment. Kate and the caregiver were at the café in our retirement community where we go for ice cream each afternoon. When I approached them, I saw Kate and the caregiver with another resident sitting right in front of and facing Kate who was smiling. They were having a conversation.
What made this an especially rare moment is that the resident drops by almost every afternoon when we are having ice cream. Each time, she is looking for a smile or verbal response from Kate. That rarely happens. This time she hit the jackpot.
Of course, the resident could understand almost nothing that Kate was saying. Like me, she was simply enjoying the fact that Kate was so cheerful and talkative.
Later, I was surprised to learn that Kate had spoken several words or short sentences that were understandable. Here is one that our caregiver told me.
Resident: “I think Richard likes you.”
Kate: “Yes. He takes care of me.”
Since then, Kate has had several other days when she was especially cheerful and talkative.
I can’t explain why she is having so many more of these experiences, but they make everyone happy as well. I do know that when she is like this, she receives a lot of reinforcement from the people around her. That is certainly true for her caregivers and me, and we celebrate every Happy Moment.
