I was expecting (hoping?) Kate to be awake a little earlier today. I had a special interest. A man with whom I have had a friendship going back more than twenty years died this week. His service was at 11:00 this morning. At 9:00, Kate had gotten up to go to the bathroom. I thought that was a good sign. That would give her ample time to be ready to leave by 10:30. I told her about the funeral, and she asked if she could sleep a little longer. I told her she could. She got back in bed and was quickly sound asleep. Shortly after 9:30, I had dressed for the funeral. I knew time was getting short for her to get ready and asked if she thought she could get up. She really wanted to sleep, so I changed clothes and let her sleep.
About 11:30, I went back to the bedroom with the intention of waking her. I found that she had gotten up. We were definitely too late for the funeral, but we got to lunch at Bluefish close to our normal schedule. We ordered our usual meals, the salmon for Kate and a salad with a cup of shrimp and andouille sausage stew for me. Our regular server was out. She had cut her hand shortly before we arrived, but we were served by someone else who was as friendly as our regular one. We chatted with her about her educational and career plans. She hopes to start college in the fall.
We came directly back to the house after lunch. Kate brushed her teeth and went to the guest room where she is taking a nap. She is lying down on a love seat. That is a bit unusual for her. She has napped many times in the guest room but it has always in the bed which for me would be much more comfortable. This continues the change in her sleeping that I have been following the past several days. I intend to let her sleep as long as she feels the need. Since her diagnosis, it has not been unusual for her to take an afternoon nap, often right after lunch. Generally, she is up within 30-45 minutes. I am eager to see if she sleeps any longer today. I am hoping not.
I should say that I have not given her Trazadone since Monday night, so I can’t blame her sleeping on that. She hasn’t gotten to bed any later than usual. Everything seems to suggest that she may be entering a new stage. That would fit with some of the other changes that I have observed over the past week or two.
P.S. 3:04
Af few minutes ago, Kate walked in. She must have rested about 45 minutes. That’s not bad. I asked if she would like to join me for a while. She said, “For a while.” I take that to mean that she’ll want to go out sometime in the next hour. That would work out pretty well. We could go to Barnes & Noble and then to dinner. In the meantime, she is content with her iPad. I don’t know what we would do without it.
