It’s been a while since I have mentioned my blog. I am doing so now because I plan to launch it on January 21. That day will mark seven years since Kate’s diagnosis. I don’t know exactly when I decided to start a blog. I know that I had the idea in the early days of this journal. It wasn’t a serious thought at the time. I only intended to keep a record of our lives since the diagnosis. I didn’t know if or when I might make anything public.
My dad spent his last three and a half years in a skilled nursing facility following a stroke and several seizures. Prior to that, he had been a very active email correspondent. The stroke left him unable to use his computer. He had a list of 40-50 people to whom he sent email, mostly the kind that others had forwarded to him. I decided to keep up with these people by sending regular emails updating them on his life and how he was doing. I did this under his name with “And Scribe” typed under his name. In an early message, I explained that it was I who was writing the messages based on what I thought he might say if he could type them himself. I kept that up until the day he died. When I looked back at those emails, I saw that it was a beautiful account of his last years. It was filled with all the highs and lows of his life as well as everything in between. I copied all of them and the replies in a Word file with the thought that I might some day put them in a book. I actually did create an electronic book although I have never published nor distributed it. That is something I still intend to do, probably on his next birthday on which he would have been 105. It was those emails that initiated my serious thoughts about a blog to capture our own experiences living with Alzheimer’s.
About two years ago, the idea began to take shape. I had read more about others’ experiences with Alzheimer’s and also talked with more people about our own. Upon hearing that I was keeping a journal, people often said, “You ought to write a book.” That provided an additional impetus to publish the journal in some form. Given today’s online world, a blog seemed a natural way to share it.
My first step was to secure an appropriate URL (LivingWithAlzheimer’s.com). I did that in November 2016. Since then I have been waiting for the right time to launch the site. Originally, I thought it would be in late summer or early Fall 2017. I soon discovered there were lots of things I had to do or consider before that would be possible. I enlisted the help of a friend and former colleague, Mark Harrington. He is a multi-talented guy who early in his career worked for a publisher before working as a writer in my company. He left us to work on his own as a writer and IT consultant. It is through him that I have been able to make it a reality. Mark has taken care of all the technical aspects to get the blog online. He has also been a great sounding board for me as I dealt with the many details that are required.
One of the things he recommended was that I read what I had written, something I had never done. I felt that he was right, but it is now over a thousand pages. That’s a lot of reading, and I haven’t yet read everything. In its present state, the site has the look it will have when it is launched to the online community. As of today, Mark has uploaded 706 journal entries. Among those, I have read, edited, and “published” 426. That leaves me with another 280 to read and edit before publishing. Mark has about a year and a half of entries to upload so that I can do my review and editing. There is no way that I will be able to do this before the launch date, but I am trying to get as much as possible done before then. I could, of course, change the launch date; however, I decided that many people will just read the current posts. I don’t expect many to start at the beginning in 2011 and read consecutively through the entire journal. No one is likely to do that.
I expect that 600 or more posts will be ready by the launch date. In addition to posting new entries, I will continue publishing the older posts that I have not completed by that time. Readers (assuming there are some) will be able to read just the new posts or read older posts by selecting them by date or category. I hope that will enable readers to pursue the subject matter that best matches their interests.
I have no idea how many people will visit the site. Even if no one does, I will feel good knowing that I have created an account of what living with Alzheimer’s has been like for Kate and me. It would be nice, however, if at least a few found it relevant to their own lives.
