I am always concerned when Kate and/or I have any special obligations in the morning. That is the time of day when I am least likely to know when Kate will get up and how easy or difficult it will be to get her places. Yesterday, we weren’t going anyplace early, but I had a conference call meeting at 9:30 for an advisory committee on which I serve. The last meeting was almost two hours. This time I had made an 11:00 appointment with a new sitter who will serve as an interim sitter for Anita while she is out for a minor surgical procedure. I had already prepared the committee that I might have to break away a little early if I needed to get Kate up. As it turned out, everything worked out well. The meeting was unusually brief. It was over by 10:15.
When I went back to check on Kate, I found that she was getting dressed. That meant I didn’t have to be concerned about her being ready to meet the new sitter. We had a little extra before she came but not enough time to get a muffin at Panera. I had one in the freezer that I thawed. Then Kate worked on her iPad until the sitter arrived.
The sitter, Marilyn, arrived on time, and joined us in the family room where we chatted for about 30 minutes before going to lunch. We had a little over an hour and a half over lunch to get better acquainted. The interview turned out to be a nice social occasion. I felt very good about her and called the agency to let them know we were pleased and would look forward to her being with us on Monday.
Kate had her bi-weekly massage at 2:00. From there we went to Barnes & Noble for an hour or so before returning home to relax before dinner. She picked up her “Big Sister” photo book that her brother, Ken, had made for her. I brought a chair over beside her and watched as she went through almost the entire book. She loves seeing all the old pictures of her and her family. She continues to comment on several specific photos that she likes. I always enjoy seeing her enthusiasm. When she was near the end of the book, she said she would like to finish the rest tomorrow. Then without closing it, she went back to the beginning and started going through it again.
We had a quiet dinner at Casa Bella. We had already been there for Broadway night last Thursday. The musical performances are held in the larger back room. This time we took a quiet booth in the front of the restaurant and enjoyed ourselves.
From there, we came home. Kate asked me what she could do. When she asks this, I tend to think she is asking because she wants something different than the iPad. I suggested a few things, one of which was to work on her iPad. That is just what she wanted. She was so engrossed that she continued working her puzzles after I told her I would put on Les Miserables. A little later, she came back to the bedroom and got ready for bed. She was asleep a little earlier than most recent nights. It was a good day and a reminder that we still have many good times.
