I am very happy to report that yesterday Kate didn’t show any of the signs of anxiety that she experienced night before last. She got up a little earlier than usual and acted like nothing had ever happened. Of course, I didn’t expect her to remember. That’s a good thing.
I was especially happy that she got up without my waking her. Two church friends had invited us to meet them for lunch at 11:45. As it turned out, Kate was awake early enough for us to spend an hour at Panera before leaving for lunch. We had a good time. These kind of social encounters are good for Kate as well as for me. As usual, Kate handled herself as though she doesn’t have Alzheimer’s.
After lunch, we came home for about an hour. Kate rested a while before I got her up for her 3:00 appointment for a massage. The massage therapist mentioned that she was very talkative. I was glad to hear that. I started arranging one massage a month about three years ago. At the same time, I arranged one facial a month as well. I space them so that she has one or the other every two weeks. Kate doesn’t say much about them although she often wants me to feel her cheeks after the facial. They are always so smooth.
From there we went to Barnes & Noble for an hour. Then we came home to change clothes and leave for Casa Bella. It was Broadway night. One of the men with whom we sit was celebrating his 94th birthday. His daughter and husband, who now operate the restaurant, arranged for 16 of us to sit at one long table. We were served family style. The music was terrific, and it was another great social occasion. I sat next to a woman who told me she thought Kate does a remarkable job at these musical evenings and that she would not have guessed she has Alzheimer’s if I had not told her. Last night Kate discovered the woman sitting next to her is a former librarian. They had a good conversation about their common background.
Even though we had a good day yesterday, I do wonder if or when Kate might have another experience of anxiety. I hope that was an isolated incident, but I’ll be on guard for more.
In closing, I can still say that Kate continues to do very well to be so far into her journey. I am grateful.
