Last Monday, Kate didn’t seem eager for her sitter. When I got home, Anita told me that Kate had been very quiet and not herself. Since I knew she was fine during the morning, I was concerned that we might have a problem with the relationship between Kate and Anita.
Kate got up late this morning. I had to wake her in order to get her lunch before leaving for my Rotary meeting. As I have done at least once before, I gave her the option of staying in bed and having Anita take her to lunch or going with me. She wanted to go with me and got up quickly. She met me I the kitchen when she was ready and asked how I was doing this morning. I said, “Just fine now that you are here. I love you.” Using her hand signals, she conveyed that she felt the same way about me. As I backed out of the garage, she said, “Tell me your name.”
We were running late, so I asked Anita to meet us at Panera. When I saw her walk in the front door, I told Kate that Anita had arrived and that I would be leaving for Rotary. She gave me a concerned look and said something that I interpreted to mean that she didn’t see a need to have someone stay with her. Then Anita walked up to the table, and Kate greeted her warmly.
When I returned home, everything seemed fine. They were both in the family room. Anita had the TV on. Kate was on her iPad. I walked Anita to the car and asked how things had gone. She said Kate was fine today. When I walked back inside, I asked Kate the same question. She also thought things were fine.
I did point out a photo album that Kate’s brother Ken had made for her. Anita said she had not seen it. I suggested that next Monday she have Kate show it to her. I felt better today than I did last week but will continue to be sensitive to any potential issues that arise.
As usual, Kate was ready to leave the house after I came home. Before leaving, she asked, “Where are we?” I told her we were at our home in Knoxville. She went to the bathroom. She asked the same question again. She asked again before we got in the car. She asked another three or four times before we got to Panera where I got her a bagel.
She was very tired at dinner and immediately got in the bed and under the covers when we got home. I let her rest for almost an hour. Then I suggested that she might get up so that she would be able to get to bed at her usual time tonight. She got up quickly and is now working on her iPad.
