Sleeping Late Today

It is now 10:48 and Kate is still sleeping soundly. She got up around 9:30 to go to the bathroom but went back to bed. This is really highly unusual although she did sleep this late sometimes in the past few weeks. It could be that this is related to her cold although both our colds have been very mild. They have not interfered with any of our usual activity. It was a beautiful day yesterday, and she worked outside for more than two hours at one stretch. As with many other behaviors, it is not easy to explain each one; however, I am always trying to see any signs of a pattern than may be developing. If she is not awake by 11:00, I will wake her up for lunch. The sitter is scheduled for 1:00; so we won’t have as much time as I would like.

While she has been in bed, I have accomplished a number of things that I should have done before. I wrote two thank you letters, one to the Session of our church, the other to the man who wrote the resolution they had presented to me a couple of weeks ago. I also made hotel reservations in Lubbock for Christmas.

Since shortly after Kate’s retirement from her last school in 1990, a group of teachers with January birthdays has gotten together in January of each year to celebrate. This hasn’t happened the past two years, and I wanted to get them together one more time while Kate can still enjoy it. This morning I called one of them who has organized the event each year to see about our doing it this year. He had been thinking the same thing; so we are going to pick a date and then check with everyone else to see if it works. This was a special group to Kate. I want her to get together with them one more time.

Catching Colds

For the past several days, my nose has bothered me in the morning. Yesterday afternoon, I noticed that Kate was coughing periodically. After dinner, the coughing increased. By this morning, it was clear that we both have colds. So far, they both seem mild. I have been taking Benadryl for the past few nights. I wondered about giving it to Kate but was concerned about possible interactions with medicine she is currently taking. A quick Google search confirmed my suspicions. She takes trazadone. I have been aware that it is commonly prescribed for people with dementia. It is an antidepressant that is sometimes given as a sleep aid. When combined with Benadryl, it can augment the usual effects of these drugs. In Kate’s case, she doesn’t appear to have a problem with a runny nose. The cough, however, can be annoying to her and to those around her.

I find myself a bit irritated when I get a cold, but I try to remind myself how infrequently that has occurred over the past few years. In fact, one of the ways in which Kate and I have been fortunate is not having other illnesses to contend with. I can’t remember the last one I had, but I am sure that it is more recent than Kate’s. Since they seem mild, I am hoping we will be rid of the bug in the next few days.