It is 11:22, and Kate is just getting up. Even that is only after I started gently waking her about 10:50. I hate to wake her, but the sitter will be coming at 1:00, and we need to get lunch before then. As I have noted before, since coming down with the flu, she has been sleeping more. That has meant getting up later since she has still be in going to bed about the same time. Last night we went to Casa Bella for dinner and didn’t get home until 9:00. Still, this is unusually late for her to get up.
Although I think she should be over with the flu now, it may be that this is one of the aspects that is hanging on. She is not coughing much at all now, but once in a while she does. It sounds very much the way she did when she got sick almost two weeks ago. Her being tired may be another residual symptom.
I’ll continue to monitor her sleeping to see if this represents a more permanent change. I have to remind myself that two or three years ago, she was sleeping more than she has in recent years. The difference is that she was taking both morning and afternoon naps. She gave that up a good while back though she had a long nap while the sitter was here two days ago.
I have very carefully arranged for the sitter to come in the afternoon so that Kate and I could spend the mornings together. If she starts sleeping this late every day, I will spend much less time with her. On a day like today, I will have about an hour or so with her for lunch. Then the sitter will have her for four hours. When I return, it will be within an hour of dinner time. Then we are winding down for the day. That would be a big change for me. I’m not sure I am ready for that.
