Kate slept a little later this morning, so we didn’t get to Panera until just after 11:00. Then Andriana’s turned out to be busier than usual. That meant it took a little longer for lunch which actually worked in our favor. This has been one of those days when Kate has asked more questions about our family (her father’s name, my father’s name, our children, and where we live). I took advantage of that time to reminisce with her. I was partially motivated by her anxiety attack week before last. That night she didn’t know who she who or where she was. Since then I have been trying to give her a little more information about her and her family.
Today’s conversation dealt largely with our attendance at so many live performances since our first date to Handel’s Messiah. I reminded her that we began our 50th anniversary celebration with a trip to New York City during the Christmas season where we attended Messiah at St. Thomas Episcopal Church.
Then I gave her a Cliff Notes’ summary of other performances we have enjoyed since we married. Most have involved musical theater. The first Broadway and Off-Broadway musicals we attended were on our first trip together to New York in 1967. We saw the original productions of Man of La Mancha and Cabaret. Since then we have seen as many as 30-40 shows there and many more here in Knoxville. We have also had season tickets to the Knoxville Symphony for 30 years. We haven’t generally attended some of the more popular entertainers, but we have been to concerts by Louis Armstrong, The Mamas and the Papas, Gloria Loring, Eartha Kitt, Jimmy Buffet, Marvin Hamlisch, Bette Midler, Billy Joel and Elton John, Tony Bennett, Paul McCartney, Art Garfunkel, and Willie Nelson. Opera has more recently entered our lives but is a favorite. We’ve enjoyed opera at The Met in NYC, Vienna, Berlin, Amsterdam, Zurich, and Sydney as well as quite a number of the Live in HD at The Met performances broadcast live in local theaters.
I went through these things knowing that she wouldn’t remember many, if any, of the things we had done. She does, however, remember that we have attended lots of events like these. More importantly, she was very attentive and seemed to enjoy my them bringing up. At the end of our reminiscing, she noted how fortunate we have been to have had so many good times together. I agree and will cherish the memories when we are no longer able to share them.
