A Small Thing, But Another Marker on our Journey

Several years ago, I bought a white board for Kate. I put it on the island in our kitchen where she would see it each day. Each morning, I wrote the day of the week, the date, and a list of things on our schedule for that day. Over the past year, I gave up writing the schedule because Kate was not reading it; however, I have been dutifully writing the day of the week and the date each morning when I went to the kitchen for my breakfast. For at least six months, It looked like Kate did not pay attention to it, but I kept it up. Today I finally broke down and put the white board away. At this point, she seems to have little interest in this information. In case I am wrong, I bought a large digital clock that gives the time, day, and date. At least I won’t have to erase the old and write the new information each day. It will also be easier to read.

I’ve noticed a couple of other new things. One is that she is beginning to dislike whatever drink she gets, even her Dr. Pepper. For a several months, she has been mixing a little of each of the non-soft drink items (at least two types of lemonade, sweet and unsweetened tea, and two flavored teas) and being unhappy with them. She has started asking me to refill her cup. I have been getting her either an Arnold Palmer or a half and half mixture of sweet and unsweetened tea. She hasn’t like those either. In two different restaurants today, she didn’t drink her Dr. Pepper because it didn’t taste right to her. I tasted it. It tasted the way it usually does.

Tonight she worked a few minutes to figure out how to put on her robe. She finally gave up and asked me to do it for her. This is one of those occasions when she was happy to have me do something for her.