I don’t know where the time has gone. We met with Dr. Reasoner last Wednesday afternoon, and I felt like I wanted to write down our thoughts following the meeting. I just haven’t gotten to it. In fact, I am getting ready to leave for Orlando today and may not write much now.
The key thing to say is that Kate felt much better after our meeting. While she felt as though she “could cry” after Dr. Furner’s briefing, she felt like she was getting a reprieve. Since that time we both have felt better.
Dr. Reasoner asked Kate how she had been getting along, and Kate told her. Kate seemed very much at ease and comfortable with everything even before she asked Dr. Reasoner how far along she was in the disease. Dr. Reasoner told her she was very early and conveyed (or at least we inferred) that she has a good bit of good time ahead of her. We specifically talked about travel plans, and Dr. Reasoner said there would be no need to restrict ourselves for a long time to come.
Since that meeting, we have both seemed pretty much normal except that I continue to be very accepting of behavior that might have annoyed me before the diagnosis. She does continue to experience frustration with some tasks. She is working on a family photo album with her brother and has been bothered by his urge to finish. She doesn’t like to be rushed. This is one of the signs I had noticed some time ago.
Except for these things, life is very much the way it was before the diagnosis. On the whole, however, we have been more active in doing things since we have known about her AD. We have been to Trustus 3 times and planning to go to Town and Workshop in the next couple of weeks. We have eaten out a lot.
I should also say that I am prepared for us to notice that significant changes might occur in the next 3-5 years which means I still want us to push on doing things. Kate also talks more about her bucket list than before the diagnosis. In fact, I don’t think she had even used the term bucket list before then.
We are definitely committed to the trip to Scotland in May and the trip to Africa at the end of December and first 2 weeks of January. I am also beginning to think about New Zealand in the Fall 2012.
