Success With the New Sitter

Last week I was very disappointed to learn that we were losing our Monday sitter. She had been my favorite. A couple of weeks ago, we had a new sitter, Cindy, when I had a luncheon to attend. She had an easy job since Kate was still in bed when I got home. She had been asleep the entire time I was gone. I did introduce her to Cindy before I left, but they had no chance to get acquainted.

Cindy got the assignment to sit with Kate yesterday while I went to Rotary and a United Way meeting. I was comfortable having her but was a little uneasy as I wondered how Kate might respond to someone she didn’t know. I decided it would be best to wake her early enough to get her dressed and ready for lunch. Then the two of them could go to lunch at Panera. That would give them a little time to get acquainted.

I didn’t say anything to Kate about my leaving or Cindy’s coming. I waited until she arrived. I met her at the door and walked her to the kitchen where Kate was taking her morning meds. I introduced Cindy to Kate and told Kate that Cindy had come by to see her a couple of weeks ago, but she was asleep. I went on to say that she was back and that they could go to lunch together. Kate received her just the way I would have wanted. She was happy that they could go to lunch.

Then I told her I was going. She said, “Why don’t you eat lunch with us?” I told her it was my day for Rotary. She gave me a slight frown and then turned to Cindy and said something like, “Well, we’ll just have good time ourselves.”

Before leaving, I set up the TV to watch YouTube videos of the Tabernacle Choir. When I returned home, they were watching intently. This is one of the few times that I have used the video cam to check on things while I was away. I checked between Rotary and my United Way meeting. They had apparently just gotten back from Panera and were starting the video. I checked again after my UW meeting. They were still watching.

When I got home they were both sitting in front of the TV. They had been well-entertained by the music, and I was feeling great that it had been a successful first visit with this sitter. Today I will confirm with the agency that she is to be our regular Monday sitter.