More Success with the Sitter

About three weeks ago, we got a new sitter on Mondays. She replaced the previous one who was experiencing her own health issues. I asked the agency to send the new sitter an hour earlier on her first day so that I could get acquainted with her and give her instructions about Kate and her care. I liked her immediately. When Kate met her, she felt the same way.

I felt so comfortable with her that the following week I left before getting Kate up. That left Valorie to get her up and help her with her shower, dressing, and taking her to lunch. That has taken a big psychological load off of me. Prior to that I sometimes had to rush Kate to get up and ready for me to take her to lunch before the sitter arrived. Now I don’t have to get her up at all.

I have been surprised and pleased by the way Kate has handled this change. In fact, I don’t think she has been aware of it. That’s the sad part. On the other hand, she likes Valorie. When I told her this past Monday that I was leaving and that Valorie would help her with her shower and getting dressed, she was perfectly at ease. That makes me feel comfortable about leaving.

Now I am beginning to wonder how Kate would respond to Mary who comes on Wednesday and Friday. Would she feel as comfortable accepting her help with those same things? I think so and am willing to try it. The difference is that Mary arrives at 1:00 instead of 12:00. That means Kate is more likely to be up and showered by the time Mary arrives. Whatever the future holds, I feel good about both of our sitters.