What a Nice Day

At the end of my previous post I said that I thought it would be another good day. Of course, I didn’t really know, but all the indications were good. I am glad to report that everything went well. We left Panera for lunch about 11:30, and then returned home for about 45 minutes.

I had scheduled a rare staff meeting at my office at 1:30. Since our sitter is in New York today, I invited Kate along and told her she could work on her iPad in my office during our meeting. Our current staff consists of three people who have been with me over thirty years, and it’s been a good while since Kate had seen them. I was surprised that she didn’t ask me to help her remember their names during our drive to the office. Perhaps she hadn’t remembered where we were going, just that we were going out. I believe that is true most of the time we go places.

When we got there, we must have had 20-30 minutes of social time. After all, I only see them briefly when I stop by on my way to Rotary each week. I was glad to see that Kate very quickly got into a conversation with two of them while I was chatting with another. In a few minutes, we were all in a general conversation and enjoying ourselves. I saw Kate participate comfortably in a way that I don’t often see. I would say she was handling the situation remarkably well. Once again, I thought how fortunate it is that she has retained this gift of sociability even when her memory is gone.

The surprise came when I decided to start the meeting. I told Kate that she was welcome to join us but that she could also go to my office and work on her iPad. She decided to stay. She even spoke a little, especially at the end when she was very complimentary about these three who have been with me for so long. It pleased me no end.

When the meeting was over and we started down the stairs, she said, “Where am I?” At first, I said, “Knoxville.” She said, “No, I know that.” Then I explained that we were at my office. How interesting that she could talk so comfortably with the staff and praise them for their ability to run the show and then immediately wonder where she was. This is just one more mystery. One thing was clear to me. She had enjoyed herself and handled herself beautifully. I left feeling really good.

From the office, we went directly to Barnes & Noble where we stayed two and a half hours before going to dinner. It was unusual, but today we didn’t see a single person we know. Kate didn’t take a break during the entire time we were there. She might have stayed longer if I hadn’t said it was time for dinner.
We had a good dinner and have spent a quiet evening together. She is now in bed, and I will join her in a few minutes. It’s been another good day.