Looking Forward to a Good Day

It is a beautiful day in Knoxville today. In fact, we have had a string of beautiful days. That has meant Kate is spending a little more time in the yard. I try to let her stay out as long as she cares to. Sometimes, especially late in the afternoon, I feel the need to encourage her to come inside as I did yesterday when we were supposed to pick up friends to go to dinner at Casa Bella where they had a special night of music the songs of Peter, Paul and Mary as well as Simon and Garfunkel. This was a one-time replacement for Broadway Night that occurs the third and fourth Thursdays of each month. They have been doing this for the past 16 months. Kate and I have made almost every program as well as Opera Thursday which is the first Thursday of each month. This is something we both enjoy. I believe it is especially beneficial for Kate. It is not only a time to enjoy the music; it is also a social occasion. Many of the people who attend are regulars like us. Last night was a special treat for Kae as she is very fond of the couple who went with us. She loved the evening. That, of course, makes me happy.

Yesterday there were a couple of things to note about Kate’s behavior. Early in the day as she was getting dressed, I went to her room to get an idea of how long it would be before leaving for Panera. When I entered the room, she picked up a small painting or print that we had gotten on a trip some time ago. She asked, “Where did I tell you I wanted to hang this?” We had not had a conversation about this at all. I said, “I don’t remember your telling me.” She looked mildly disgruntled and tossed he picture on her bed where it had been. From past experience I knew not to pursue the subject any further.

The second thing occurred as we were getting ready for the dinner last night. She said something like, “They really have the time down on the deodorant.” I was puzzled but didn’t say anything. She came out of the bathroom and said, “It works. You just hold your arms up like this for 10 minutes (seconds, I assume).” She went on to say more that I didn’t understand. At first it sounded like you didn’t need to use deodorant if you just washed under your arms and then held them up for a short time. She said something else that made me think holding up one’s arms let the deodorant dry made it work more effectively.” I told her I didn’t know that. She then said, “You told me that it made sense.” When I told her I didn’t remember talking about this, she was irritated and said, “Let’s not talk about it.”